FinDom 101 – Practical Steps For Beginners
Hosted by Mistress Marley, Pro Domme/Kink Educator

Financial Domination is a psychological kink that involves the Dominant party receiving gifts, reparations, and other monetary means from the submissive party to be humiliated in return. As impossible as it sounds, it’s becoming one of the most popular kinks within the BDSM community. Mistress Marley will teach you the basics of “Findom”, from how to establish your online presence, to receiving the cash you deserve.


Mistress Marley, a.k.a. @thechocolatedomme, is a New York City-based professional dominatrix that specializes in financial domination (‘findom’), sex educator, ‘play party’ curator and supportive mentor of up & coming Dommes looking to embark upon a career in the industry.

A powerful sex worker advocate, Marley got her start in 2017 by researching jobs that best suited her personality and freedom-loving lifestyle; the former exotic dancer learned the ropes of her craft through six months of intense, meticulous studying, and when she knew she was ready to take flight, Chocolate Domme was born. Marley achieved peak media infamy in 2019 when she caught the attention of 3.5 million viewers in an unforgettable viral video of her walking her leashed sub through North Carolina Central University’s homecoming event.

The Pro Domme is proud of her 1,000-member mentoring collective, Black Domme Sorority, which she calls a “safe space for Black and Afro-Latina women to come together” in order to network, promote one another’s content and offer a true support system for each other as underrepresented professionals in the industry.

Marley also offers instructional courses, virtual demonstrations and exclusive tips on mastering BDSM 101, Sex Work 101, Sugaring 101 and Sex Work 101 through her Sexcademy, a learn-at-your-own-pace platform with membership opportunities in the Sugaring Academy, Dominatrix Academy, and SW Academy.

Mistress Marley currently boasts more than 65,000 unique monthly visitors, 46,000 average interactions and more than 25,000 social media followers.